http://www.adjustandproceed.com/2010/03/02/parental-failure/ Doing what it takes to keep it all together... and then some Tue, 12 Jul 2011 14:56:29 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 http://www.adjustandproceed.com/2010/03/02/parental-failure/comment-page-1/#comment-145 Barbara Thu, 26 Aug 2010 17:04:57 +0000 http://www.adjustandproceed.com/?p=52#comment-145 Wow! I think you're beating yourself up way too much! Parents who have children with special needs, need lots of resources outside of their families to ensure a proper education for their children. Part of parenting is teaching our children independance for those who will successfully move out into the world separate from us. Some children will need assisted living accommodations and still need to learn to do many things for themselves. If our children are failing, I think the big picture needs to assessed and asking why, what, where, how, who before we blame ourselves. Wow! I think you’re beating yourself up way too much! Parents who have children with special needs, need lots of resources outside of their families to ensure a proper education for their children. Part of parenting is teaching our children independance for those who will successfully move out into the world separate from us. Some children will need assisted living accommodations and still need to learn to do many things for themselves.
If our children are failing, I think the big picture needs to assessed and asking why, what, where, how, who before we blame ourselves.

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